Parents can say one word to send children into histrionics: “No."
The reason for denial doesn't matter; "no!” just stirs up feelings of rebellion. Even no's designed to keep us from harm are not well received — even as adults. It feels like someone is telling us what to do or, in this case, what not to do.
When Jesus was tempted by the Devil in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1-11) he knew his answer had to be “no.” If he had given in to the Devil, Jesus would have been disobedient and unfaithful to God.
Because of his faithfulness, he could say “yes” to so much more. He said “yes” to receiving children; to invitations to sit down for dinner and discussion with disreputable types; and to teaching those who desired to learn more about God.
Today, we say no to drugs because we have said yes to clean living. We say no to revenge; yes to forgiveness. We say no to temptation; yes to self-control.
As Lent continues, allow yourself some introspection. Learn how you may have compromised your fidelity to God.
And learn how to take a firmer stand so you can say “yes” to Him and “no” to the ways of the world.
The Rev. Mark Broadhead is Laurel Hill Presbyterian Church and First Presbyterian Church of Crestview's pastor.
This article originally appeared on Crestview News Bulletin: PULPIT: Know when to say no — and yes